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Celebrating Everyday Spirituality

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Celebrating Everyday Spirituality

What Is Heaven’s First Law? Hint: It Isn’t Order

Are all your ducklings in a row–or not? (Photo by MabelAmber – Pixabay)


Alexander Pope, a prominent British poet of the 18th Century, penned these oft-quoted words: “Order is heaven’s first law.” (from An Essay on Man) Pope and many others of his day, believed we lived in a highly ordered and structured universe created by God “Himself.” They felt this “divine order” should serve as the guiding principle for our intellectual, spiritual, and physical lives. They said, “Just look at how all the planets circle the sun in an orderly way and how the four seasons follow one another in order…. And what are the 10 Commandments if not a list of ten ways to maintain order among disorderly human beings?”

But did Jesus teach the primacy of order? Did he himself live a highly ordered life? To answer those questions, let’s look at the gospels.

Jesus’ life did not begin in a very orderly way. His very coming caused considerable “disorder.” It began with a young woman saying “yes” to God’s extra-ordinary request. Jesus’ life continued in Mary’s womb because of Joseph’s decision to marry Mary and raise her child as his own. Then we have the disruptive trip to Bethlehem, Jesus’ birth in a stable, the flight into Egypt, and, at age 12, Jesus is lost in the city of Jerusalem. It seems to me, Jesus’ early life is marked by considerable disorder.

How do bees make those perfectly ordered hexagons? (Photo by kkunghi100 – Pexabay)

And once Jesus begins his public ministry, the Gospels show him coming and going, and going and coming, often in a seemingly haphazard way. He has a very flexible schedule, allowing all kinds of people to come to him at will: ten lepers begging for a cure, a blind man who keeps shouting to get his attention, the Scribes and Pharisees who are always trying to trick him, and Nicodemus who comes at night. Notice Jesus didn’t say to him, “Nick, come during regular office hours!”

Jesus often acts spontaneously. He seems comfortable with interruptions. For example, Jairus interrupts him with an urgent request, “My little girl is dying. Please come!” Jesus drops everything and goes with Jairus. But on his way to Jairus’ house, there’s another interruption. A poor woman who has been hemorrhaging for12 years, secretly touches his cloak and is instantly cured. Then Jesus wastes time to stop and talk with her, praising her for her great faith.

(Jesus and some of his apostles – Photo by airgil studio – Pixabay)


The apostles on the other hand, are concerned about order. They argue among themselves who is the “greatest,” that is, who is at the top of their “pecking order.” And they are always trying to establish more order in Jesus’ ministry. They try to shoo away the little children. (Children and strict order seldom coexist!) They are shocked to see Jesus conversing at a well with a Samaritan woman. In their view of the proper social order, this woman has two strikes against her: Samaritan and woman! And later, when Jesus talks of his passion and death (the dissolution of all order!), his disciples try to talk him out of it.

On several occasions Jesus speaks out against allowing order to usurp the place of other more important values–most notably love. He openly cures (does loving work) on the Sabbath. He allows lepers to approach him. He praises “enemies” like the Roman centurion, and he makes a Samaritan a hero in one of his parables. He speaks kindly and gently to a “lady of the night.” He lamblasts the Pharisees for their idolization of order, shown by their rigid adherence to religious rituals and laws. Finally, Jesus becomes a victim of order. He is put to death primarily because he is considered a threat to the established order–both political and ecclesiastic.

Yet order is important. I would never be able to write a weekly blog if I didn’t have some level of order in my life! But extreme order can be a tool of the Evil Spirit. I remember my scripture professor warning us, “All the trains ran on time in ancient Egypt.” He was describing the extreme order in Egypt, where everyone, including the Hebrew slave population, knew “their place” in a strict social order maintained by fear, intimidation, brutality, and death. Closer to our time, is 20th Century Nazi Germany which, in 1945, had 23 main concentration camps with over 1,000 “satellite camps” and forced-labor facilities all over Germany and its conquered territories. This “vast sprawling system of imprisonment and extermination” is a horrific example of order gone diabolically wrong.

Conclusion:

What does this have to do with us and our spiritual lives? First, order definitely has a place in our lives–including our spiritual lives. We need structures to insure time for vital values such as prayer, worship, family, friends, work, service, and rest and leisure. But in the name of good order, we must never sacrifice more important values like compassion, respect, justice, freedom, and joy. For, through both word and example, Jesus shows respect for order. He was basically a good Jew, an observer of the law and ritual. At the same time, he makes it very clear: heaven and earth’s first law is not order, it is love. Always love. Above all love.

Is this a picture of someone’s 4 top priorities? (Photo by ottawagraphics – Pixabay)

For reflection:

On a scale of 1 to 10, 1 meaning “very little order” and 10 meaning “very much order,” how would you describe your current life in general?

Jot down 3-5 priorities in your life. Then reflect on how much time and “funds” you devote to these priorities. Any conclusions?

How comfortable are you with interruptions? Have you ever had a major interruption in your “ordered life” that turned out to be “a blessing in disguise”?


P.S: To Lauren S-C … You emailed Sister Maresa last week about one of her paintings. She tried to respond to you but the email bounced back. Please email her again. She’s eager to respond to your request.


I felt I had to choose for today’s video, the ancient song, “Ubi Caritas, Deus ibi est.” (“Where there is love, there is God.”) The only question I had, which version to choose? Here is a beautiful choral version by Dan Forrest. The moving water in the background enhances the meditative mood of this simple prayer.


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7 Responses

  1. All I can say is wow!!! This is just what I needed. My mom died in October her birthday was on Friday this weekend being mother’s day and her birthday was hard. This gave me such peace. Thank you.

    1. Catherine, My deepest sympathy to you as you mourn your mother’s death… My mother passed away in Feb. 2006 and I still miss her terribly. But how lucky we both are to have experienced the love of individuals who mean soooo much to us!. What a blessing our mothers were and still are for us… I thank God for allowing this little reflection to give you “peace.” Your comment was a special gift for me today. Thank you, thank you!

  2. Good morning, Melannie…
    Good morning, all…

    Every time I type your name, Melannie, the Google spellcheckers “order” me to change it! But I say, “Never!”

    I would say I’m about a five when it comes to the importance of order in my life. As a father of three — especially when they were little — interruptions to the “daily plan” were a way of life. Once, while I was about to leave for work, my son Brian — now thirty-eight, but then four — grabbed my leg and begged me not to go. I explained I kind of had to. He then rushed upstairs and came down with two of his Ninja Turtles. He said they would protect me. I took them, and they remained on my classroom desk the whole day!

    Early in my teaching career, I was all about maintaining order in the classroom — which is a good thing! But as my career went along, I soon realized I needed a plan “B” (and sometimes C and D and E!) for every lesson. I had to adjust, change, and adapt. And what does Jesus say about the Holy Spirit? He likens her to wind — a mysterious wind that sweeps into our lives when she will and where she will!

    1. John, As usual, your comment is very insightful. I loved the little story of Brian and his experience of “separation anxiety.” You handled it well–but so did he! He was willing to “separate himself” from those turtles so that they would protect YOU!… And there’s nothing like being in a classroom filled with kids to teach the teacher how to balance order with the “winds” that arise in the classroom–winds which may be the Holy Spirit coaxing us to adapt or even scrap our carefully prepared lesson plan for the day! Wise words, John… Melannie

  3. Good morning Melannie and all,
    I would say I’m about a 6. I do like order and routine, but I have learned that flexibility is very important! When my 4 kids were young that was crucial to surviving work, school, and all of the activities. I always thought when I retired I would have boundless time to do whatever I wanted, but now a year in I’m finding a daily routine is still needed to guarantee that I have prayer time and quiet to help me be a good grandmother and all that is requiring. Thanks again for a helpful Monday morning reflection.

    1. Kathy, I suspect anyone who has raised four children has had to learn the art of flexiblity. You make a good point that even so-called “retirement” needs a certain amount of “routine” or structure…I appreciated your words that your prayer time and quiet directly help you “to be a good grandmother.” Thank you for your sharing today! Melannie

  4. Sr Melannie,
    Thank you for blog each week. I look forward to it every Monday. As I have been aging my “ordered life number” has increased. I seem to need more structure now, but I do welcome interruptions. A major interruption, which was a blessing in disguise, came in 2020. My daughter and her family were set to move to Greece. Having sold their house and not being able to move to Greece because of the COVID-19 pandemic, she and her husband and our two little grandsons spent the next five months living with us. Being able to spend so much time with them in itself was a blessing, but while they were here with us I ended up in the hospital seriously ill for almost a month. I was so grateful my husband was not alone for that time and when I came home from the hospital my wonderful daughter took care of me as I slowly recovered. I don’t know what I would have done without her. Divine intervention at its best. God is good.

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