It’s May! And this is the month the Catholic Church traditionally devotes to Mary, the Mother of Jesus. In honor of Mary, I am devoting today’s reflection to several paintings of Mary created by a single artist, Sister Maresa Lilley, a Sister of Notre Dame and good friend of mine. A few years ago I posted a blog on Sister and her paintings. (You can access it by typing her name in the search box on the top right side of this page.) Today we will focus on eight of her depictions of Jesus’ mother.

The painting above is entitled “By the Name of Mary.” It is one of my favorites. To me, it shows Mary as a young woman, a “girl” really. I like to think it portrays Mary at the Annunciation when the angel Gabriel first apeared to her. In her facial expression I see amazement coupled with fear. The brightness of the angel is reflected on her face. Interestingly, there is second source of light behind Mary. It reminds me of a halo, the traditional symbol of a holy person. I like several things about this painting. First, Mary is so REAL. Her hair is slipping out of her head covering. This tells me she is engaged with life–perhaps working hard when the angel appeared. Maybe she was kneading dough, walking to the market in the hot sun, or tending to her small garden. Mary looks INTERRUPTED to me. Doesn’t God interrupt our lives at times too? Mary seems strong yet vulnerable, very human. She is WIDE AWAKE and ALERT to what is happening around her. I resonate with her mixture of wonder and fear. I’ve experienced that combination many times in my life too. I welcome your additional feelings and thoughts on this painting and the paintings that follow.

Painting #2 is entitled “Betrothed to Joseph.” You can think of this painting as Mary’s engagement picture. Painting #3 is one of Sister’s many paintings of Mary with her child Jesus. It’s appropriately called “Joy to the World.” I am especially drawn to the face of that smiling little boy. He is a happy child. He knows his Mom loves him–shown by the way she leans her cheek on his little head. He is well-cared for–as seen in his neatly combed hair. Mary’s strong hand is holding him safe and secure. His little arms seem to be moving. He strikes me as a healthy and rambunctious little boy.

Throughout history, people have wanted to see something of themselves and their culture in their depictions of Mary. So Mary is sometimes depicted as European, African, Asian, American, etc. Some of Sister Maresa’s Mary paintings follow this tradition. Sister spent some time serving in Vietnam. Little wonder she was drawn to portray Mary as a young Vietnamese woman #4. Painting #5 is entitled “Mary’s Boy Child,” taken from the “Jamaican-ish” song sung by Harry Belafonte years ago… And painting #6, “Daughter of Israel,” has Middle Eastern overtones.

Painting #7 captures the darkest hour in the life of Mary when her dead son is taken down from the cross. This painting shows Mary as she tenderly removes the crown of thorns from the head of her crucified son. We can see the anguish on her face. The painting is appropriately called “Heart of Darkness.”

Throughout the centuries Mary has been given many titles such as: Mother of God, Queen of Peace, Star of the Sea, Mother of Mercy, Refuge of Sinners, Cause of Our Joy, and one I’m particularly fond of Notre Dame, which is French for “Our Lady.” Another rather unusual title for Mary is Our Lady Untier of Knots (or Undoer of Knots). This devotion, dating back to 17th Century Germany, symbolizes Mary’s role in helping to solve “tangled” life situations, that is, family problems, difficult personal relationships, community struggles. Here is Sister Maresa’s interpretation of this title for Mary, based on earlier 17th Century paintings:

PS #1: A Happy Mother’s Day to all mothers! We pray today in a special way for our own mothers, living and deceased… and for all our readers who are mothers. May God give all mothers strength, courage, patience, wisdom, joy, and great love as they serve their families and the family of God!

PS #2: Sister Maresa had one of her paintings accepted recently for an Art Show in Gates Mills, Ohio. The first day of the show, her painting was sold! We, her Sisters here, are very proud of her! Her painting is called simply “Zebras”:

PS #3: If you’d like to see more of Sister Maresa’s paintings you can go to her blog “Grace to Paint”: (https://gracetopaint.org) or go to Etsy where she displays and sells her paintings: https://www.etsy.com and then type in Paintgrace. If you’d like to contact Sister personally about any of her paintings or to ask about commisioning a painting, her email address is: [email protected].

For reflection:

Of all Sister’s paintings of Mary, did any one move you or touch you today? Did any of them “speak to you”? If so, which one did and what did it say?

If you could paint, what would you like YOUR painting of Mary to look like? What would you try to CONVEY ABOUT MARY in your painting? I’d love to hear some of your ideas below!


For our video today, I searched for a Marian hymn from another culture. Although many songs were beautiful, I found this one particularly moving. It is labeled simply a Chinese song to the Virgin Mary, and it is sung by “Harpa Dei,” a Catholic ensemble of four siblings. You will see them in the video. They sing traditional liturgical songs in the original language in which those songs were composed. This Chinese hymn to Mary reminds all of us to pray for our fellow Christians/Catholics all over the world, especially those who are facing persecution for their religious beliefs. (The English lyrics will come up automatically.)

I look forward to reading your comments below!